By Reggie Dixon
Why do gay men love anal sex? It’s a question that hits straight (those who are not gay) people as well as other gay men as well like a landmine. What is there to like about anal sex? Rather, why go down that road?
In this article, I do not tackle the morality of the act but rather the reasons behind the act. So, an open mind for the reader will do.
First, let’s not make the erroneous assumption that all gay men love anal sex. I have encountered some who are put off by the same. It is said that, to know the truth, you must hold no opinions. So let’s put everything else aside and find out: why do gay men love some back door action? Here are seven reasons I found;
1. They are gay
“Well, it is rather obvious!” you think, but it is the fundamental reason. Come to think of it, being gay means you are a man who has an enduring pattern of emotional, romantic and/sexual attractions to men. This would logically make one prefer anal sex over vaginal sex.
Considering the fact that men have no vagina.
So we gotta put it somewhere, right?
2. Tighter rings
For those giving the action, they find the anal entry tighter which would mean more contact with the penis and therefore more pleasure. It gives strong sensations which lead to mind blowing orgasms.
It also produces a lot of stimulation on the glans, giving more pleasure.
I know it feels great, but everybody’s a little different.
3. Prostrate things
The prostrate is said to be the male G-spot; he genesis of undeniable pleasurable feeling.
Anal sex for the receiver is said to hit the prostrate, which, in turn produces a lot of pleasurable feeling which leads to an intense orgasm.
4. The King of the realm
This makes them feel in control of the relationship and is therefore a stroke on their ego. They say; Ego is the pride of men. The dominance makes them feel responsible for most of the work.
This feeling of being in control gives the a sense of worthiness, making them perform better and appreciate the act.
5. Down the dungeon
The fact that anal sex is deep, as some describe it, gives them a lot of pleasure thus they dive into the action.
It gives them more sensation and is therefore more satisfying.
This makes it more slippery thus giving smoother action and therefore generating pleasure. On the other hand, it also makes them last longer since the grip is reduced.
The in turn prolongs the time for enjoying the pleasure keeping them satisfied.
7. Thug Life
There is something strange about finding pleasure in what is considered taboo.
The more you are not supposed to do it, the more you want it.
Most gay men find it an accomplishment to have done this.
“It gives the same thrill of a school girl sneaking to a party”, someone shared.
Below, are some of the comments received from some gay people about the sensations they received. The identities have not been given for privacy and personal reasons.
- “It feels deep. Plenty of room to explore.”
- “It is intoxicatingly tight.”
- “There is something badass about it.”
- “It makes me feel in control!”